Lifestylerz© hopes to represent those within the community with a voice and safe place to find a great match.

This is a dating platform for the BDSM community across the United States (including Hawaii and Puerto Rico) and Canada and Mexico.

Our members range from a seasoned lifetime veteran, who may have experience with several flavors of this alternative lifestyle. Maybe you’re the curious first timer with an interest in learning more and checking to see how it fits in your world. Our BDSM Ed tab has information available for everyone with more to come on a regular basis.

This platform is a living, breathing, evolving site started by people living this lifestyle. Our goal is to help fill a void by creating a safe environment to meet new people.  If you have suggestions about the language used, articles in the BDSM Ed section, or other features you would like to see, let us know.  We have our experiences but know that there are lots of stories to be shared. 

We offer competitive tiered pricing.  Choose the level with the features you desire at a price you can afford.   Our fees won’t break the bank.  There are no hidden charges or advanced payments required.  Cancel anytime.

Why Lifestylerz©?

While we are all participants of BDSM, no member of the team bringing you this platform is an expert on the boundaries, or guidelines within this culture.

A message from our platform’s creator:

Greetings to you all!